as for asking for relationship advice online, i basically agree. on e/n it's worse though because they're all so fucked up it's like asking if it's ok to be into fucking stuffed animals on furfuckers.com or whatever.
the fundamental problem with asking for e/n type advice online is that you are asking complete strangers who don't know shit about you or your situation to help based on whatever you decide to explain in text. you're never going to get anything better than generic advice, and if you're dumb enough to do it, you're very likely to just scroll past any advice you don't want to agree with. the internet is good for asking people technical questions like, why is my car doing this, but not about your personal life.
welp that's my hot take on e/n.